I don't know how people do this without family around them. I am so blessed to be surrounded by family that loves me and my kids. Last week I had a terrible stomach bug, and though it was still really difficult without Daniel, family swept in and helped out. In the middle of last night, I thought I heard someone in the house, and my mom was here within minutes to check on me. It makes the year feel so bearable. Lately the kids and I have been struggling to get along. Especially Hazel and I. She is so stubborn, and there is no simple key to pleasing her - not even a "difficult" key; the same thing never works on her twice. If I'm mean, she throws a fit; if I'm sweet to her, she takes advantage and bosses me. I've tried being more consistent in punishment, and it really seems to make no difference. But last night before bed I tried to remember how blessed I am to have each one of them. I feel like for the past 7 weeks I've been thinking, "If I can just get a break from all 3 kids, I could breath!" This is my reality, and I need to be grateful that I have my babies to keep me company, make me laugh, keep me busy, and serve as a moment by moment reminder of all that God has given to Daniel and I.
Daniel seems to be doing really well. He's been in something of a holding time since he arrived in country, waiting to be sent to his unit; that should be happening soon. The fact concerns me. On my end it's been very easy so far in that he's calling most days, and chatting on facebook with me a couple times a day. Knowing he's training and just hanging out on a nice, "safe" installation brings me comfort. I wonder about where my imagination will go once he's truly "working.".
I sent my first package to him two weeks ago and it arrived within a week; I'm so impressed with the mail system. For anyone looking to send regular care packages to soldiers, I have to suggest ordering the large priority boxes from usps.com. They are free to order, and then, no matter how heavy, they are only $13-something to send to a soldier. I couldn't believe how easy the process was, and how fast it reached him. Sending him care packages is a nice way to feel like I have a little control over his conditions over there. I have two more ready to go as soon as I get his new address.
